Don't let love happen to you

This is just something I found and liked and wanted to share with you...


Go after her. Fuck, don't sit there and wait for her to call, go after her because that's what you should do. If you love someone, don't wait for them to give you a sign because it might never come. Don't let people happen to you. Don't let me happen to you, or her. She's not a fucking television show or tornado. There are people I might have loved had they gotten on the airplane or run down the street after me or called me up drunk at four in the morning because they need to tell me right now and because they cannot regret this. And I always thought I'd be the only  one doing crazy things for people who would never give enough of a fuck to do it back or to act like idiots or be entirely vulnerable and honest. And making someone fall in love with you is easy. And flying 3000 miles on four days notice because you just can't just sit there and do nothing. And breathe into telephones. Its not everyone's idea of love but it is the way I can recognise it because that is what I do. Go scream it and be with her in meaningful ways because that is beautiful and that is generous and that is what loving someone is. That is raw and that is unguared, and that is all that is worth anything, really.

Kipa